Choose a quiet spot where you will not be disturbed by
other people or by telephone. Eliminate distractions and
interruptions during the period you'll be meditating.
Commit yourself to a specific length of time say about
15- 30 minutes, either in the morning or evening and try
to stick to it.
Pick a focus word or short phrase that's firmly rooted
in your personal belief system. A non-religious person
might choose a neutral word like one, peace, or love.
Others might use the opening words of a favorite prayer
from their religion such as 'Hail Mary full of Grace',
"I surrender all to you", "Hallelujah",
"Om", etc.
Assume a comfortable posture lying on your back or sitting.
If you are sitting, keep the spine straight and let
your shoulders drop. Sit quietly on a chair normally
with your hands on your knees or thighs you can also
sit crossed leg on the floor.
One can open or Close your eyes, as you feel comfortable.
Many feel that it is easy to concentrate when eyes are
closed.
Bring your attention to your belly, feeling it rise
or expand gently on the in-breath and fall or recede
on the out-breath. Keep the focus on your breathing,
"being with" each in-breath.
Relax your muscles sequentially from head to feet. This
helps to break the connection between stressful thoughts
and a tense body. Starting with your forehead, become
aware of tension as you breathe in. Let go of any obvious
tension as you breathe out. Go through the rest of your
body in this way, proceeding down through your eyes,
jaws, neck, shoulders, arms, hands, chest, upper back,
middle back and midriff, lower back, belly, pelvis,
buttocks, thighs, calves, and feet.
Breathe slowly and naturally, repeating your focus word
or phrase silently as you exhale.
Assume a passive attitude. Don't worry about how well
you're doing. If your mind wanders away from the breath,
simply say, "Oh, well," and gently return
back to the breath no matter what it has become preoccupied
with.
Continue for 10 to 20 minutes. You may open your eyes
to check the time, but do not use an alarm. Sit quietly
for a minute or so after you finish, at first with your
eyes closed and later with your eyes open. Then take
atleast 5 minutes time and stand.
After practicing for a week you may feel like it or
not and see how it feels to incorporate a disciplined
meditation practice into your life. Be aware of how
it feels to spend time each day just being with your
breath without having to do anything.
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